SS26 has been in the army for years now. Last year he married a girl who has a 4 yr old son. So he is a step dad plus has one of the way due in a few months. He says that his military job does not allow him enough time to spend w/his family sooooooo his plan is to get out, around the same time the baby is due, and live in his MIL's basement. They will live there until he finds another job and are able to make it on their own.
So I'm very glad that DH and I's basement was not #1 on the list but since they live right across town we are by default an unspoken #2. I think this is a very bad idea. Right now ss26 has a steady income, full health insurance coverage, paid housing, etc. He wants to leave all of this for a basement with no guaranteed job and the only fall back insurance is welfare and parents taking care of them.
I have told DH that I feel this is an extremely unwise plan and that if things go awry @ MIL's then we are next in line. I want to be supportive of DH's relationship w/his children but not actually supporting them.
Besides cementing in the basement any wise suggestion?
Source: http://www.steptalk.org/node/89803
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